CHALLENGES
I don't believe in dating apps.
I live in an excessively hedonistic city (Berlin, Germany), which leads to most people being either focussed on quick & short hookups, or even those who aren't have mostly turned cynical and "run with it".
I'm a heterosexual man with Asperger's and ADHD – and therefore have even less insight into what women think, feel, want, and love.
Solution
Maximise my real-life 1:1 exposure to potential dream women I'd like to date and marry – by using AI to analyse where I can "stumble into them".
Start by simply writing down what you define as your dream partner. This also works for all genders, LGBTQIA+ and whatever you're into.
Use an LLM with Internet access to find locations your dream partner most likely visits – judging from his/her persona. I recommend Perplexity.ai. (Status: 08/2024)
Frame your prompt as if you were planning your next marketing campaign and are looking for "touch-points" – which is the official term for "places to find/reach your target audience" because AIs often refuse to help you in romantic endeavours.
Simply take my prompt below and change your dream partner's persona and the search location to your city of residence.
Prompt
ACT LIKE A WORLD-CLASS MARKETING STRATEGIST, LEADING AI ENGINEER, AND SECOND-TO-NONE PSYCHOLOGIST.
1. READ THE PERSONA I WANT TO REACH WITH MY MARKETING:
<PERSONA>
👤 Demographics
Dr. Eva Schmidt is a 34-year-old heterosexual single woman living in the vibrant Prenzlauer Berg neighbourhood of Berlin, Germany. She holds a Ph.D. in Computer Science with a specialization in Artificial Intelligence from the Technical University of Berlin.
Eva is of German-Croatian descent, and fluent in German, English, and Croatian. She maintains a modern apartment in a renovated pre-war building, reflecting her appreciation for the blend of historical and contemporary aesthetics. Eva's marital status is single, though she's open to a committed relationship with the right partner who shares her passion for technology and innovation.
💼 Job
Eva works as a Senior AI Research Scientist at a leading AI research institute in Berlin. Her role involves developing cutting-edge machine-learning algorithms and natural language processing models. With 8 years of post-doctoral experience, Eva has established herself as a respected figure in the field of conversational AI and ethical AI development. Her annual income is approximately €120,000, placing her in the upper-middle-class bracket in Berlin.
Eva's work frequently involves collaborations with tech giants and startups alike, and she often presents her research at international conferences. She's particularly interested in the intersection of AI and human cognition, focusing on creating more intuitive and empathetic AI systems.
🧠 Psychographics
Eva is driven by a deep-seated belief in technology's potential to improve human life. She values innovation, intellectual curiosity, and ethical responsibility in tech development. Politically, Eva leans center-left, supporting policies that promote technological advancement while ensuring social equity and environmental sustainability. She's a strong advocate for women in STEM and actively mentors young female professionals in the tech industry.
Eva's lifestyle is a blend of work-hard-play-hard, balancing intense research periods with active social life and cultural experiences. She's passionate about lifelong learning, regularly taking online courses in fields adjacent to AI, such as neuroscience and philosophy. Eva is also committed to mindfulness and mental health, practising yoga and meditation to counterbalance her high-stress work environment.
📱 Information Sources
Eva stays informed through a diverse array of digital and traditional media. She regularly reads scientific journals like "Nature Machine Intelligence" and "Journal of Artificial Intelligence Research". For tech news, she relies on websites like TechCrunch, Wired, and MIT Technology Review. Eva is active on Twitter and LinkedIn, following influential AI researchers and tech leaders. She's a regular listener of podcasts like "Lex Fridman Podcast" and "Machine Learning Street Talk".
Eva attends major AI conferences such as NeurIPS and ICML, considering them essential for networking and staying abreast of the latest developments. She also follows several YouTube channels focused on AI explanations and demonstrations, like "Two Minute Papers" and "Yannic Kilcher". For broader news, Eva trusts Der Spiegel and the BBC, appreciating their in-depth analysis of global affairs.
😣 Pain Points
Despite her success, Eva faces several challenges. She often feels frustrated by the slow pace of ethical AI adoption in the industry, witnessing companies prioritize profit over responsible development. The gender imbalance in her field is a constant source of irritation, as she frequently finds herself the only woman in high-level meetings or conference panels. Eva struggles with work-life balance, often feeling guilty when taking time off from her research.
She's concerned about the potential misuse of AI technology and the spread of misinformation through AI-generated content. Additionally, Eva feels a growing disconnect between academic AI research and real-world applications, worrying that some of her work might not have the practical impact she desires. The rapid pace of AI advancement also causes her anxiety about staying relevant in her field, leading to occasional bouts of imposter syndrome.
🛒 Customer Journey/Buying Process
As a discerning consumer in the tech space, Eva's buying process is thorough and research-driven. She's often an early adopter of new AI-related products and services, but her decisions are based on careful evaluation rather than hype. Eva plays a key role in her institute's procurement of AI tools and hardware, influencing decisions on everything from cloud computing services to specialized AI chips. In her personal life, she values products that enhance productivity and align with her ethical standards.
Eva is willing to pay a premium for high-quality, ethically produced items. Her buying journey typically involves extensive online research, reading peer reviews, and seeking opinions from her professional network. She's sceptical of traditional advertising, preferring hands-on demonstrations or trial periods before committing to a purchase. Eva is also increasingly interested in products and services that support mental health and work-life balance, reflecting her growing awareness of the importance of these aspects in her high-pressure career.
</PERSONA>
2. CREATE TOP 10 LISTS FOR TOUCH-POINTS WITH THE HIGHEST PROBABILITY OF FINDING THIS PERSONA:
A) LIVE EVENTS IN BERLIN, GERMANY.
B) ASSOCIATIONS IN BERLIN, GERMANY.
C) SPORTS CLUBS IN BERLIN, GERMANY.
D) CULTURAL HAPPENINGS IN BERLIN, GERMANY.
Output from Perplexity.ai
Based on the persona of Dr. Eva Schmidt, here are the top 10 lists for touch-points with the highest probability of finding her in Berlin, Germany:
A) Live Events in Berlin, Germany:
1. Berlin Tech Week
2. Re:publica Conference
3. Falling Walls Conference
4. WeAreDevelopers World Congress
5. CogX Berlin (AI and Emerging Tech Festival)
6. Berlin Buzzwords (Big Data and AI Conference)
7. Deep Learning Week Berlin
8. Women in Tech Festival
9. Mindspace AI Ethics Symposium
10. TechCrunch Disrupt Berlin
B) Associations in Berlin, Germany:
1. German Informatics Society (GI)
2. German Association for Artificial Intelligence (KI)
3. Berlin.AI Community
4. Women in AI Germany
5. German Association for Pattern Recognition (DAGM)
6. Berlin Institute for the Foundations of Learning and Data (BIFOLD)
7. German Research Center for Artificial Intelligence (DFKI)
8. Berlin Center for Machine Learning (BZML)
9. Fraunhofer Institute for Open Communication Systems (FOKUS)
10. Berlin Technology Foundation
C) Sports Clubs in Berlin, Germany:
1. Urban Sports Club Berlin (for variety and flexibility)
2. Holmes Place Health Clubs (high-end fitness)
3. Yoga Sky Berlin (rooftop yoga studio)
4. Kletterwerk Berlin (indoor climbing)
5. Runbase Berlin (running community)
6. Becycle (boutique cycling studio)
7. Aspria Berlin Ku'damm (luxury sports club)
8. CrossFit Berlin
9. Boulderklub Berlin (bouldering gym)
10. Berlin Badminton Club (for quick, intense workouts)
D) Cultural Happenings in Berlin, Germany:
1. Berlin International Film Festival (Berlinale)
2. Berlin Art Week
3. Long Night of Museums
4. Transmediale (festival for art and digital culture)
5. Berlin Science Week
6. Jewish Culture Days (Jüdische Kulturtage)
7. Berlin Biennale for Contemporary Art
8. Lange Nacht der Wissenschaften (Long Night of Sciences)
9. Gallery Weekend Berlin
10. Berlin Tech Open Air Festival
These lists are tailored to Dr. Eva Schmidt's interests in AI, technology, ethical considerations, cultural experiences, and maintaining a work-life balance.
They provide a mix of professional networking opportunities, intellectual stimulation, physical activities, and cultural enrichment that align with her persona.